Sunday, October 15, 2017

Guilt and Caregiving.


For the eleven years I was a caregiver, you always had conflicting emotions.  If you were out doing something fun and your loved one couldn't go, there was always a guilt factor involved.  Since Dennis passed away it has taken some time to get passed that emotion because guilt is a very powerful  tool that Satan loves to use.  But, we know our loved ones  would want the best for us, and that is what I cling too. I had 37 years with the most wonderful man, but now, I have to find happy again.  At least as much happy that is possible without Dennis, until I see him and Jesus in Glory!  Some days I don't think it is possible and some days I do, so I have to take it one day at a time.  I know without a shadow of a doubt that Dennis would have wanted me to be happy, he was that kind of person. This month some friends and I went to see REO Speedwagon and Dennis would have loved them!!



 
 We had a great time!!
Yesterday I went to the Oklahoma State University Homecoming game! We had so much fun. 

Much love, Cheri
 

6 comments:

  1. Did they play “Keep on Lovin’ You?” I love that song.

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  2. Good for you....you carry on the joy that you shared! That’s modeling Gods promises after such an earthly loss. Now I’m singing REO!

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  4. That looks like fun - I love live music, although I've never seen REO.

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